After the stress of going through a divorce , it can be difficult to think about dating again. Everyone has their own timeline for when they might want to get out there. Even if you know your marriage is really, truly over, you still need to give yourself some time and space. Although it might be tempting to lick your wounds with positive attention from another, this distraction can actually inhibit you from the healing work that is necessary to move forward in a healthy way with someone in the future. Dating requires a certain amount of vulnerability, tolerance of uncertainty, and willingness to feel a range of emotions in the hopes of making positive new connections and relationships. It is possible that your first relationship post-divorce might not be a rebound, but there's a lot of "ifs" that go along with that.
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This leads to plenty of good-looking, eligible men on the market who have a past. Of course, we all have a past. Many people, men and women, assume that when someone is divorced they made a lousy spouse. As a double divorcee, I can tell you that yes, there were times I made a lousy spouse, but there were times I was the perfect wife! I just married the wrong men.
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I am a master of dating too quickly. My last ex and I became exclusive on our second date. Come to think of it, I did the same thing with the boyfriend before that. Were those happy, healthy relationships? Am I still with them?
I am a master of dating too quickly. My last ex and I became exclusive on our second date. Come to think of it, I did the same thing with the boyfriend before that.